Nongivers

So here is my kvetch (and I was in Austria and drank too much and laughed too much so I didn't produce a european version......can't kvetch in such awesome places).

Do you have this person in your life. The allaboutme-er? The person that just can't nurture and just can't see more than a 2 foot radius around themselves. The person that sends you this message "I need to hear your voice". "I need to see you". "I need to have you make me laugh". "I need my Tos fix". Okay, nice sentiments you say, and indeed they are. However these are all about them. All about liking the way YOU make them feel. The allaboutme-er's lack the ability to be there for anyone. Or to think of what the other persons needs are. Especially if the other person is over effusive in their nurturing of them. Relationships seem to work best when you have a combination of I need you and I think you need me, let me be there for you. Unfortunately, some people lack that ability. Maybe the allaboutme-ers should get together with the Motus.